What are you getting your child's teacher for Christmas?
And so it is the time of year at which many a parent embarks on the relatively new tradition of purchasing some small token for their child's teacher or nursery nurse.
I think most people now feel it's kind of obligatory to buy some form of present; little 'best teacher' models, chocs, jewellery, bottle of wine etc. I've seen all sorts given to teachers, and I've given gifts myself - years ago I have to say, when The Boy was new to school and I felt a lot of pressure to keep up with the other moms on the playground.
As the years have worn on however I have developed my own theory as to what makes a perfectly appropriate, suitable gift for these hardworking professionals. It's a bit novel I must admit but hear me out.
How about, once a month teachers are thanked by way of a sum of money paid into their bank accounts?
Okay, sorry for the sarcasm but I'm just highlighting the fact that teachers do their jobs in return for their salary; there really is no need for them to receive gifts of gratitude.
It is a nice idea but think about it, what do teachers do with the little trinkets they get at Christmas? And what about parents who have more than one child? It's an expensive season at the best of times but throw in an extra three or four presents and cards and it all adds up.
I'm sure there are teachers who deserve special thanks but seriously, as someone who works in a school I can honestly say it's never expected (although all little gifts are always appreciated), and there is no need for parents to feel the need to dip into their pockets.
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Laura Yates - Brummie mum Laura Yates is a 27 year old mother of two from Kings Heath. She gives her take on family life in the city.
Agreed.
Also as someone who worked in a school, the occasional thank you for above-and-beyond was appreciated, but if I was a teacher and was bought a commercial "Best Teacher" plaque for every child I taught, I'd have to buy a few new fireplaces for each room in my house.
What you're referring to though (this "Thank You Teacher" stuff) is just an idea thought up by the greeting card companies to get more coin out of us. Some people are foolish enough to take the bait; others aren't.
I totally agree Laura, just another way of lining the pockets of our giant companies. Why do we do it? Why do we bow to the pressure? Why do we allow ourselves to get sucked in by these marketeers? Is it festive - I don't think so. I think it is nonsense and I reckon if teachers were polled on it they would agree too. Oh the joy of another 'Best Teacher' mug from little Johnny that you can't stand!!!
I dont want any of that "Christmas Teacher" nonsense, but any kid that wants to give me presents (good ones of course) or cold hard cash is more than welcome to!
If they want a good parents evening performance, kids should give large. For a decent bottle of something, "Little Johnny has had a MARVELLOUS year!"; for something cheap or no gift, "I'm very concerned about Johnny's flatulence - he should probably be probed by a doctor".
It's only fair.
Exactly Laura, for once I actually agree with you. Unfortunately you will always have "Brown nose" parents sticking there ore in thinking they can give there child a leg-up in class.
The PTA for example should be renamed BNA (Brown Nose Association).
I now expect a barage of abuse from BNA members, but before you do I ask you this. Why did you join the PTA, instead of helping out in your local charity shop?
I shouldn't find that funny.. but I do!
Actually if I didn't work I'd join the BNA, er, I mean PTA because schools desperately need active support of parents for the benefit of the students.
Those who give up their time to help the PTA are very kind.